Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Why i choose nursing?

i chose nursing as my pfrofession because i wanted to make a difference in the health care profession also i wanted to help poor people who could not be able to afford to go to hospitals and have their illness cures, so as a nurse in the future i wanted to help them restore their overall harmony..

Thursday, February 12, 2009

Is It Too Soon To Exchange Valentine's Day?


Is It Too Soon To Exchange Valentine's Day?



You guys just met. A few days, weeks or months ago. Gay relationships and dating affairs tend to accelerate like dog years, much faster than the average hetero match up, but is your relationship too new to celebrate Valentine's Day?

The big V is supposed to all about love, romance and other niceties that man desires, but sometimes what should be Cupid's dream ends up being a cauldron of stress. Are you guys at "that point" where you should be exchanging gifts? If so, what on Earth kind of gift do you get someone you just met?
Is it too soon? There are no ready made relationships, hetero or same-sex. Each couple is different and some get closer sooner than others. The best way to determine if it is too soon to buy your guy a Valentine's Day gift is perhaps the less romantic way of checking in: Ask him if he's ready for the gift exchange stage of your relationship. In the most delightfully gay of fantasies, you would be able to just show up on his door step with a red wrapped box of Valentine's Day romanticism. However, in these days of mystery dating, you can't be certain the sentiment will be returned. So, why set yourself up for failure? Instead, check in with him to see where your relationship is. You don't need to go into the full "what's our future" discussion, but you do want to get down to the basics of gift exchange and under what parameters or circumstances you will exchange (if you do at all). Reduce the pressure by keeping the discussion light. After all, if you have to question if gift exchanging is appropriate, it's probably way too soon to discuss the future of your relationship. This isn't an instant Dooms Day scenario, just an opportunity to clarify the pace of your relationship. Talk about it to ensure that your partnership doesn't accelerate past the honeymoon phase and into territory neither of you are ready for (together).

"LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX"


Top 20 facts about The First Time

Your Body

  1. You can get pregnant (and boys, you may not carry the baby, but you still "get pregnant").
  2. The only forms of birth control that work with any reliability for the inexperienced are; condoms, birth control pills (taken for at least a month before), female condoms, sponge, spermicide, depro-provera (given by a doctor well in advance), norplant (minor surgery required well in advance), IUD and diaphram (both need a doctor).
  3. Rythm and Cycles require some real experience and are NOT for first timers.
  4. Standing up right away or jumping up and down will not prevent pregnancy.
  5. You can get an STD, and even AIDS, the first time.
  6. Only condoms (female and male), preferably with a spermicide, can give you any protection against STDs and AIDS.
  7. The only 100% perfect protection against AIDS, STDs, or pregnancy (for adults and teens) is NOT having sex.
  8. You probably won't know what you are doing or if you are doing it "right" - try not to worry too much about it, as long as it is consentual there is no one "right" way.
  9. Your body may not cooperate, even if your mind wants to be having sex, your body will have an opinion too.
  10. You can change your mind and say "NO" whenever you want to before doing it - just because you agreed to have sex doesn't mean you have to go through with it.
Your Feelings

  1. It will NOT go the way you plan, it is best to plan only the birth control, time and place.
  2. If you are a girl; it will not feel very good - if you are a boy; it will be over so fast you won't know for sure how it felt.
  3. You WILL be nervous and maybe a little scared - not necessarily in a bad way.
  4. You will feel different about yourself and the other person - not necessarily in a bad way.
  5. You will NOT suddenly be a woman or a man.
  6. You may feel guilty that you are actually wanting to have sex - try to remember sex is perfectly natural and normal and not something to feel guilty about.
  7. As long as you know you are ready, and care about the person you are with, you will enjoy yourself.
  8. If you don't respect your partner, or you know they don't resepct you, you will have regrets.
  9. If you love, or are loved by your partner, you may still have regrets.
  10. Regrets are normal. You have lost something - your virginity - it is natural and normal to mourn that loss.

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

LOVERS DAY

i love lovers day.. hahaha happy valentines to all...